what up with divorced..

[doreme]

woman keeping their husband last name or their married name..if you divorce it should be a law, for the x-wife to go back to her maiden name..after all you did divorce because you don't want nothing to do with each other right....

[mokitapupita]

true. but nowdays i see people with both names, their married name and their maiden name.

[mokitapupita]

personally, i think the guy should get the girls name. /ubbthreads/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/smirk.gif

[KelBear]

Well ...when your children also have that married lastname .. it might be too confusing for the kids if they mother changes her name.

[AngelOnHigh]

it usually costs money and court times to change your name back to maiden name...

my suggestion to all that are getting married keep your maiden name... life will be easier.

[riggs]

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: KelBear</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Well ...when your children also have that married lastname .. it might be too confusing for the kids if they mother changes her name. </div></div>

Not to mention a situation with police or customs.

[bluekrissyspikes]

i agree...kids shouldn't have to see their mom change their last name because they won't understand...if there are kids involved i think keeping your married name is fine, or sometimes just for convenience because of a job or whatever...i guess there would be lots of reasons, although i'm pretty sure i wouldn't want to have my ex's name...

[kodak57]

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: doreme</div><div class="ubbcode-body">woman keeping their husband last name or their married name..if you divorce it should be a law, for the x-wife to go back to her maiden name..after all you did divorce because you don't want nothing to do with each other right....</div></div> if they didnt want anything to do with each other there would be no alimony,just child support.......

[cybolynx]

i got married under my wifes lastname ...

but i still sign my name with my original last name ...

i just dont feel like paying to get all my id changed over ... lol

[cybolynx]

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: steve</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: doreme</div><div class="ubbcode-body">woman keeping their husband last name or their married name..if you divorce it should be a law, for the x-wife to go back to her maiden name..after all you did divorce because you don't want nothing to do with each other right....</div></div> if they didnt want anything to do with each other there would be no alimony,just child support....... </div></div>

alimony what a bunch of crock ... with todays day in age a woman can prolly land a job faster than a man ...

i can understand way back in the day when a man was pretty much all that worked in the work force ... but thats not the case anymore .. woman have rights ... been that way for years now ... so i say kiss off with the alimony ...

[mokitapupita]

HAHAHAAH RIGHT ON

[mokitapupita]

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: CyboLynx</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: steve</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: doreme</div><div class="ubbcode-body">woman keeping their husband last name or their married name..if you divorce it should be a law, for the x-wife to go back to her maiden name..after all you did divorce because you don't want nothing to do with each other right....</div></div> if they didnt want anything to do with each other there would be no alimony,just child support....... </div></div>

alimony what a bunch of crock ... with todays day in age a woman can prolly land a job faster than a man ...

i can understand way back in the day when a man was pretty much all that worked in the work force ... but thats not the case anymore .. woman have rights ... been that way for years now ... so i say kiss off with the alimony ... </div></div>



EXACTLY. BEFORE IT WAS THE MAN'S JOB TO BE PROVIDER. NOW SEEING THAT ITS ALL ABOUT MONEY AND ALL, YOU COULD EASILY GET SCREWED OVER EITHER WAY. AND YES A WOMAN GETS MORE PREFERENCE FOR JOBS NOWDAYS. BASICALLY CAUSE THEY MIGHT HAVE A CHILD TO TAKE CARE OF OR YOU KNOW ALL THAT STUFF, OR MAYBE ITS JUST CAUSE THE PERSON DOING THE HIRING FINDS HER ATTRACTIVE?

[Chaotic Chick]

I changed my last name as soon as I got divorced. All I had to do was change my ID. Both of my sisters kept their ex-husband's last names. One recently changed hers, only because she got remarried. They kept their last names because of the kids.

[mokitapupita]

SO, TECHNICALLY YES, YOU DO NEED TO BE PRETTY TO GET A JOB.

[Huggy85]

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: mokitapupita</div><div class="ubbcode-body">SO, TECHNICALLY YES, YOU DO NEED TO BE PRETTY TO GET A JOB. </div></div>

Here we go again.........

[Chaotic Chick]

I know lots of ugly people with jobs. /ubbthreads/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/wink.gif Even I have one lmao.

[Maryms]

I think the [censored] when divorced should pay through the nose to get their named changed back to their maiden name and if they don't. Then the guy should be able to sue her for whatever he can get including anything in the future for retribution of using his last name.

[Super Gram]

/ubbthreads/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/crazy.gif Some people can only think of one thing.

[Maryms]

Oh so it is ok for women to think of money, but not a man?

[Chaotic Chick]

You HAVE to be kidding me. HE left ME for a 14 year old, and HE should have paid the money I put out to change my ID back to my maiden name.

[Maryms]

Nah if your the one who filed for divorced you should be the one who pays.

[lynys]

It does not cost anything t ochange your last name to a married name, and vice versa (to change your name back to maiden name)

I did mine a month ago, and I am not divorced yet.

[ProfessorZed]

Bitter much, NuGcAt? It's so much fun to watch private vendettas play out in public fora.

And I'm with Angel On High -- why change your name at all?

[Maryms]

$1500.00 in court to change your name legally back, but all a person has to do is just start using their maiden name again for all ID and paperwork and that is the cheapest way to do it.

[Maryms]

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: ProfessorZed</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Bitter much, NuGcAt? It's so much fun to watch private vendettas play out in public fora.

And I'm with Angel On High -- why change your name at all?
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Private vendettas?

Hell no i am glad i divorced the whoring [censored] i was with and yes I FILED for divorced against that [censored] i was with. I will never pay for her to change her name back and i could careless.

[lynys]

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: NuGcAt-SiSyRc</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Nah if your the one who filed for divorced you should be the one who pays.

</div></div>

Well for those of us who's husbands were not at all faithful in the marriage, any costs incurred for a divorce should not all be placed on the faithful spouse... IMO&gt;

[Chaotic Chick]

I only filed for divorce because he was sleeping with a 14 year old. Why should I have had to pay for anything? He was a sick pig.

I only had to pay for a change of name on my BCID and my social insurance. That was 14 years ago, so it only cost about 50 bucks but it was the principal that mattered, not the money.

[Maryms]

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: lynys</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: NuGcAt-SiSyRc</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Nah if your the one who filed for divorced you should be the one who pays.

</div></div>

Well for those of us who's husbands were not at all faithful in the marriage, any costs incurred for a divorce should not all be placed on the faithful spouse... IMO&gt;</div></div>

My point exactly in my previous post, but in my case it was the [censored] that *****d around.

[mokitapupita]

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: NuGcAt-SiSyRc</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: lynys</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: NuGcAt-SiSyRc</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Nah if your the one who filed for divorced you should be the one who pays.

</div></div>

Well for those of us who's husbands were not at all faithful in the marriage, any costs incurred for a divorce should not all be placed on the faithful spouse... IMO&gt;</div></div>

My point exactly in my previous post, but in may case it was the [censored] that *****d around.

</div></div>




HAHAHAHA NAHH THAT DON'T HAPPEN NOWDAYS

[lynys]

All I had to change was my driver's licence. I gues it paid to leave my name on my SIN and Health card as my maiden name.

Oh, and it cost nothing to change my driver's licence.

[Maryms]

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: mokitapupita</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: NuGcAt-SiSyRc</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: lynys</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: NuGcAt-SiSyRc</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Nah if your the one who filed for divorced you should be the one who pays.

</div></div>

Well for those of us who's husbands were not at all faithful in the marriage, any costs incurred for a divorce should not all be placed on the faithful spouse... IMO&gt;</div></div>

My point exactly in my previous post, but in may case it was the [censored] that *****d around.

</div></div>

HAHAHAHA NAHH THAT DON'T HAPPEN NOWDAYS


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Nah ... it is always blamed on the guy and never on the woman.

[mokitapupita]

WANNA PLAY AROUND, DEAL WIT DA CONSEQUENCES.

[Maryms]

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: mokitapupita</div><div class="ubbcode-body">WANNA PLAY AROUND, DEAL WIT DA CONSEQUENCES.</div></div>

Yeah tell that to the [censored] as i did and i am the one who had to pay and lose 60% of my [censored].

[italiandomino]

best advice. Don't get married. Marriage is the #1 cause of divorice.

[Maryms]

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: ItalianDomino</div><div class="ubbcode-body">best advice. Don't get married. Marriage is the #1 cause of divorice.</div></div>

Now that is 100% true as many people who live together for years get married and then poof they get a divorce with in 1-5 years. I have seen and heard about this many times.

[doreme]

I don't beleive in alimoney .. that's for women who keep barking at the ex and can't let go and also for revenge..child support yes...and it doesn't cost nothing to change your name back to your maiden name..the kids will get use to it and you will set a good example for your daughters to be liberated as she grows up...

[Maryms]

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: doreme</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I don't beleive in alimoney .. that's for women who keep barking at the ex and can't let go and also for revenge..child support yes...and it doesn't cost nothing to change your name back to your maiden name..the kids will get use to it and you will set a good example for your daughters to be liberated as she grows up...</div></div>

Well hallelujah .... cause the thing is i don't see many women paying child support and why the hell is that????

Well there is a few reasons why that is and one of the major ones is the courts some how see Snatch involved therefore they automatically give the mother the children.

Poor guys have to always get stuck with weekends and paying support while they are at it and not only that even if it is a Joint-Custody the GUY still has to pay child support like WTF is up with that.

[The 6th Member Of AC/DC]

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Mad_Max</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: doreme</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I don't beleive in alimoney .. that's for women who keep barking at the ex and can't let go and also for revenge..child support yes...and it doesn't cost nothing to change your name back to your maiden name..the kids will get use to it and you will set a good example for your daughters to be liberated as she grows up...</div></div>

Well hallelujah .... cause the thing is i don't see many women paying child support and why the hell is that????

Well there is a few reasons why that is and one of the major ones is the courts some how see Snatch involved therefore they automatically give the mother the children.

Poor guys have to always get stuck with weekends and paying support while they are at it and not only that even if it is a Joint-Custody the GUY still has to pay child support like WTF is up with that.

</div></div>

Nice use of the S word there

[General Lee]

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Mad_Max</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: mokitapupita</div><div class="ubbcode-body">WANNA PLAY AROUND, DEAL WIT DA CONSEQUENCES.</div></div>

Yeah tell that to the [censored] as i did and i am the one who had to pay and lose 60% of my [censored]. </div></div>


well mabey u should of kept her happy lol

[Maryms]

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: General Lee</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Mad_Max</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: mokitapupita</div><div class="ubbcode-body">WANNA PLAY AROUND, DEAL WIT DA CONSEQUENCES.</div></div>

Yeah tell that to the [censored] as i did and i am the one who had to pay and lose 60% of my [censored]. </div></div>


well mabey u should of kept her happy lol</div></div>

Ya know it is so easy for some to make such ignorant comments, but it is ok i see where it is coming from, a person who has not seen the light yet.

It had nothing to do with SEX dude she was just a [censored] and i should have never married a [censored] thinking i could have a [censored] all to myself... /ubbthreads/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/smile.gif

[General Lee]

LMAO mabey she wanted a man with a job and values

[The 6th Member Of AC/DC]

He certainly likes using the HO word

[Maryms]

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: General Lee</div><div class="ubbcode-body">LMAO mabey she wanted a man with a job and values</div></div>

Well then she should have not wanted two of them then as she already had that with me.

Told ya plain and simple she was/is and forever will be a [censored] and i will gladly tell anyone her name so they can bang her anytime they please.

[Maryms]

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: The 6th Member Of AC/DC</div><div class="ubbcode-body">He certainly likes using the HO word</div></div>

Well it is her middle name so it is ok to use it.

[mokitapupita]

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: General Lee</div><div class="ubbcode-body">LMAO mabey she wanted a man with a job and values </div></div>



k how about values but no job?

[Maryms]

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: mokitapupita</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: General Lee</div><div class="ubbcode-body">LMAO mabey she wanted a man with a job and values </div></div>



k how about values but no job?</div></div>

Dude ... she would screw you and anyone ... so NP's.

[mokitapupita]

twitch

[mokitapupita]

yes but girls do want money to enjoy themselves so, you wont get anywhere without one.

[Maryms]

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: mokitapupita</div><div class="ubbcode-body">yes but girls do want money to enjoy themselves so, you wont get anywhere without one.</div></div>

Not true man as it not that hard to get into a *****s pants trust me i married/divorced one... /ubbthreads/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/smile.gif

[mokitapupita]

ok, i have not much experience in that, but notice the easy ones are the ones that you have problems with after?

[Maryms]

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: mokitapupita</div><div class="ubbcode-body">ok, i have not much experience in that, but notice the easy ones are the ones that you have problems with after? </div></div>

Oh yes that is a 100% true statement that is why you sleep with them then say goodbye.

[mokitapupita]

ok, but then how do you get into those mess ups with kids and all then?

[Maryms]

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: mokitapupita</div><div class="ubbcode-body">ok, but then how do you get into those mess ups with kids and all then?</div></div>

Not sure exactly what you mean ... do ya mean dating a girl who has kids already as some of those women are messed up and all some of them only want is a Father Role Figure for their children?

[mokitapupita]

yes but they are looking for a father role figure for their kid, even though the kid isnt even yours, so yeah those are messed up and also gettning someone preggo then they leave you. all because you got no will power. hahahahaa

[Maryms]

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: mokitapupita</div><div class="ubbcode-body">yes but they are looking for a father role figure for their kid, even though the kid isnt even yours, so yeah those are messed up and also gettning someone preggo then they leave you. all because you got no will power. hahahahaa</div></div>

If you get someone preggo and they leave you ... then all they wanted is your money whether you have any now or not the courts will make an order and you will have to pay for a very longtime.