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jaydee
03-26-2008, 06:33 PM
please accept my appologies for the way ive been acting on here regarding jobs in the soo. although its only confined to me, these may be by opinions but i didnt mean to bring anyone else into it too, it just got out of hand. so, sorry to Huggy, Ma, starterwiz, Millie, Geoff, don't ask, underworld warrior,and all yous guys /ubbthreads/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/beerchug.gif

i realize i shouldnt of unloaded on this board and acted so unaccordingly, and im sorry to the Admins and mods for putting up with me too! through this whole ordeal, few stuck by me and i respect that like Stingray, Suzy, dusk til dawn etc. etc.

i realize that part of my problem is that, i dont even know what i want yet. im sort of lost in that, like i stated before i have worked at NuComm and mostly every call centre, did newspaper delivery but not too much and i also have a casino training certifcate, some welding exp, and my CPR but thats about it so far. the casino certifcate is is of no use to me now unless i go out of town. Ive thought about going out west or finding work out of town with my brother in Ottawa, but just didnt get around to it yet cause of some health issues, meds and all. So, basically i dont even know what i want yet, so... bottom line is i need to decide what im going to do with my life, not anyone else.

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b&aMom
03-26-2008, 06:40 PM
Ya' know what? That's the best, and most positive, thing I've ever read from you. Good for you.

It is very tough when you don't know what you want to do, and it's not limited by age. How many older people in the past have wanted a career change, but not known what path to follow next? Life is full of changes.

My suggestion? Think about what you like. It's always easier to go to a job you like, than one you don't, regardless of pay rate. If you like to read, look into working at the library (requires education), or a bookstore. Or as a tutor....I think you get the point. If you like off roading, is there a job where they sell parts? Or train to become a mechanic? Or learn to modify vehicles? You have to (I hate this phrase LOL) think outside the box.

jaydee
03-26-2008, 06:43 PM
thanks mom! i know lots of people that went into school for one thing and now they are not even into that now, they just have a job to survive so, i just dont like going into debt, get overwhelmed paying all that unnecessary interest to the banks. im cautious, but my cautiousness is putting me more behind, i realize this. as much as i avoid it and keeping out of the game, the worse it is for me in the long run i think.

SusyQ
03-26-2008, 07:00 PM
What can I say I always liked you. /ubbthreads/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/wavey.gif

Huggy85
03-26-2008, 07:02 PM
Wow. After reading your post, Mooch, I need do tell you that I have something that I never had before. Respect for you. Many of the tidbits of advice that were given to you suggested a change in attitude was in order. It appears that that might be happening.

Your post suggests humility, and that is an admirable quality.

Now take that and venture forth. Get to know yourself and what you like. Try different jobs and careers. You'll find a focus.

Take another look at all that was suggested to you. With your more positive attitude which seems to lack that sense of entitlement you were famous for, much of it might make more sense to you.

Good Luck to you, Moooch. Stay positive, that will get you further than any diploma or relative in an HR Department ever could.

Peety
03-26-2008, 07:02 PM
That was a nice thing to say.Susyq..

GenX
03-26-2008, 07:07 PM
<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> all yous guys </div></div>

That's awesome! /ubbthreads/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/high5.gif

MaO3
03-26-2008, 08:07 PM
Well Moochie let me say that I too think that this is the most mature thing I've ever seen you post with respect to the job market.

Good for you, now keep up with the more positive thinking and put your mind to figuring out where you want to go in life.

Its much easier to be positive and it takes much less energy then the negativity.

/ubbthreads/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/beerchug.gif I wish you all the luck in the world.

jaydee
03-26-2008, 08:09 PM
<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: MaO3</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Its much easier to be positive and it takes much less energy then the negativity.</div></div>

thats so true.... thanks Ma

Macs II
03-26-2008, 08:09 PM
I don't agree with any of this ....if you can't be yourself then your faking

jaydee
03-26-2008, 08:11 PM
but people assimilate you to be the way they want you to be, which overall is the most practical best way to go, with less problems, i can still have my opinions but look at them in a different light thats all /ubbthreads/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/smile.gif

b&aMom
03-26-2008, 08:43 PM
moooochi, think about what I said. What do you like, or like to do? If you love playing video games, you could be the world's best video game salesperson in the world, with knowledge and experience. Or...you could go to the Gaming program at Algoma U. If you like ice cream, you could get a job selling it, making cones, etc., and be the very best ice cream server, or you could work somewhere dealing with making ice cream, or even going into business for yourself. Think sideways, not with expectations that go straight up, and I would bet you'll go up while enjoying your life.

Sophie's_Mommy
03-26-2008, 08:44 PM
<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: moooochi</div><div class="ubbcode-body">please accept my appologies for the way ive been acting on here regarding jobs in the soo. although its only confined to me, these may be by opinions but i didnt mean to bring anyone else into it too, it just got out of hand. so, sorry to Huggy, Ma, starterwiz, Millie, Geoff, don't ask, underworld warrior,and all yous guys /ubbthreads/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/beerchug.gif

i realize i shouldnt of unloaded on this board and acted so unaccordingly, and im sorry to the Admins and mods for putting up with me too! through this whole ordeal, few stuck by me and i respect that like Stingray, Suzy, dusk til dawn etc. etc.

i realize that part of my problem is that, i dont even know what i want yet. im sort of lost in that, like i stated before i have worked at NuComm and mostly every call centre, did newspaper delivery but not too much and i also have a casino training certifcate, some welding exp, and my CPR but thats about it so far. the casino certifcate is is of no use to me now unless i go out of town. Ive thought about going out west or finding work out of town with my brother in Ottawa, but just didnt get around to it yet cause of some health issues, meds and all. So, basically i dont even know what i want yet, so... bottom line is i need to decide what im going to do with my life, not anyone else.

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well that was nice. and yes it is your life and no one should be telling you how to live it

jaydee
03-26-2008, 08:49 PM
thnks all, shawns girl /ubbthreads/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/smile.gif

Barry Morris
03-26-2008, 08:59 PM
<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Macs</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I don't agree with any of this ....if you can't be yourself then your faking </div></div>

You must be faking. If not, somebody would have shot you by now!!!

Macs II
03-26-2008, 09:00 PM
"nice" gets you nowhere lol sooner or later people will become bored with you and they won't even bother replying to you no more ...just look around when the boring people post ...no one hardly replies

Barry Morris
03-26-2008, 09:02 PM
Like Mom said, Moochi, think outside the box.

There's always work for those who WORK!!!

jaydee
03-26-2008, 09:06 PM
<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Macs</div><div class="ubbcode-body">"nice" gets you nowhere lol sooner or later people will become bored with you and they won't even bother replying to you no more ...just look around when the boring people post ...no one hardly replies </div></div>

lol this is true cause then you become just like them you dont stand out like a sore thumb anymore, but what i think is no point in whining anymore, yes i keep my opinions to what i think, but i look at it different, appreciate what i got now and ill try to find myself, lol

Macs II
03-26-2008, 09:07 PM
<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Barry Morris</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Macs</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I don't agree with any of this ....if you can't be yourself then your faking </div></div>

You must be faking. If not, somebody would have shot you by now!!! </div></div>

dont you have something to install /ubbthreads/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/lol.gif

jaydee
03-26-2008, 09:07 PM
maybe cause i dont likei when the onus is on me maybe

Macs II
03-26-2008, 09:11 PM
<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: moooochi</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Macs</div><div class="ubbcode-body">"nice" gets you nowhere lol sooner or later people will become bored with you and they won't even bother replying to you no more ...just look around when the boring people post ...no one hardly replies </div></div>

lol this is true cause then you become just like them you dont stand out like a sore thumb anymore, but what i think is no point in whining anymore, yes i keep my opinions to what i think, but i look at it different, appreciate what i got now and ill try to find myself, lol </div></div>

the old moooochi was cool but the new and improved moooochi is just a stepford wife /ubbthreads/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/lol.gif

jaydee
03-26-2008, 09:14 PM
<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Macs</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: moooochi</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Macs</div><div class="ubbcode-body">"nice" gets you nowhere lol sooner or later people will become bored with you and they won't even bother replying to you no more ...just look around when the boring people post ...no one hardly replies </div></div>

lol this is true cause then you become just like them you dont stand out like a sore thumb anymore, but what i think is no point in whining anymore, yes i keep my opinions to what i think, but i look at it different, appreciate what i got now and ill try to find myself, lol </div></div>

the old moooochi was cool but the new and improved moooochi is just a stepford wife /ubbthreads/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/lol.gif </div></div>

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jaydee
03-26-2008, 09:23 PM
the old mooochi didnt get along with most on here, cause either by saying the truth or what not. and also wasnt quite liked by the admin and mods, keepin you on your toes workin!

adigirl
03-26-2008, 11:09 PM
Good for you Mooooochi!!! That's one giant step in the right direction. Good luck to ya.

Macs II
03-26-2008, 11:12 PM
mooooochi sold his soul to the devil ..not good for him

Babzz
03-26-2008, 11:19 PM
/ubbthreads/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/high5.gif to positive thoughts Mooooochi /ubbthreads/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/smile.gif

SusyQ
03-26-2008, 11:48 PM
<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Macs</div><div class="ubbcode-body">mooooochi sold his soul to the devil ..not good for him </div></div>

Macs give him the benefit of the doubt man. /ubbthreads/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/grin.gif

jaydee
03-26-2008, 11:50 PM
<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Macs</div><div class="ubbcode-body">mooooochi sold his soul to the devil ..not good for him </div></div>


oooooooooo i had it sold with the old moochi i think, well you would think so... no????

jaydee
03-26-2008, 11:51 PM
<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SusyQ</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Macs</div><div class="ubbcode-body">mooooochi sold his soul to the devil ..not good for him </div></div>

Macs give him the benefit of the doubt man. /ubbthreads/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/grin.gif </div></div>

there is no doubt really /ubbthreads/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/smile.gif

jaydee
03-26-2008, 11:52 PM
i just said things in unaccordingly fashion on heree, thats all
im still me. /ubbthreads/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/grin.gif

bouffant
03-26-2008, 11:53 PM
For goodness sakes will you think about the children!!

SusyQ
03-26-2008, 11:55 PM
/ubbthreads/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/lol.gif you kill me.

axalon2003
03-27-2008, 01:18 AM
I appreciate your attempt at humility, but I have to admit I Am seriously skeptical.
I quote:
"
its just gos to show though that if your daddy is important the sons have an easier time landing a decent job, no????
_________________________"

That was at 5:55PM
You posted your apology at 5:33pm. So explain to me how, after telling us how sorry you were for your posts, and how you felt you were unduly jaded in your opinions regarding equal job oppotunities in the city, that your comments in "Guess Daddy Will Have To Get Him Another Job" IN ANY REFELCT THE SINCERETY OF YOUR APOLOGY. Quite frankly, it amounts to the same sortof drivel that you are known for, and people are sick of seeing.

dancingqueen
03-27-2008, 01:27 AM
<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Macs</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I don't agree with any of this ....if you can't be yourself then your faking </div></div>

Usually I admire what you say Macs, but this opinion you seem to have is like you think people cannot change or grow. People can change their opinions on a subject or their perspective and not be fake

Macs II
03-27-2008, 01:31 AM
<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: dancingqueen</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Macs</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I don't agree with any of this ....if you can't be yourself then your faking </div></div>

Usually I admire what you say Macs, but this opinion you seem to have is like you think people cannot change or grow. People can change their opinions on a subject or their perspective and not be fake </div></div>

I think if you change your opinion because your trying to please others...thats just wrong and I would never do it ..no matter what people think of me

jaydee
03-27-2008, 05:06 AM
<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Axalon</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I appreciate your attempt at humility, but I have to admit I Am seriously skeptical.
I quote:
"
its just gos to show though that if your daddy is important the sons have an easier time landing a decent job, no????
_________________________"

That was at 5:55PM
You posted your apology at 5:33pm. So explain to me how, after telling us how sorry you were for your posts, and how you felt you were unduly jaded in your opinions regarding equal job oppotunities in the city, that your comments in "Guess Daddy Will Have To Get Him Another Job" IN ANY REFELCT THE SINCERETY OF YOUR APOLOGY. Quite frankly, it amounts to the same sortof drivel that you are known for, and people are sick of seeing.
</div></div>

not really, i posted my appology for my behaviour on here. im still a firm believer in my opnions though, you cant change that all beit all the nepotism or whatever, but now basically i just wont whine anymore since it hasnt been getting me anywhere, tomorrow will be the same as today was. and does it really matter what drive i have to you? do you really care that much of what i do with myself, just a question, dont worry

jaydee
03-27-2008, 05:10 AM
bottom line is you wanna see me buttering you up all nice or do you wanna see what i truely think about things, about the fact that i am not given chances for work that ppl i know got, (decent work) i understand i need to take full responisibility for myself, but i was just stating the way the cards look like.
like i stated earlier, i dont know exactly what i even want. but as an example, the steel plant, ive heard of people that got in there with a grade 12 diploma no problem, i go and bring one tomorrow and somehow i wont begiven even an interview yet alone testing, i know how they are there, ive brought resumes there lots. i only have so much drive power, theres always somebody else

jaydee
03-27-2008, 05:18 AM
do i think the decent job situation in this city stinks?? YES
do i think nepotism is alive and well in this city? YES

just once, when i bring my resume into the steel plant just to say, can i get an offer for an interview and such like other ppl got, thats all im saying. i know that ppl got in there with grade 12 diploma, as long as they pass the physical testing, me i seem to fall in the category that has a harder time landing a job.

oneof3
03-27-2008, 05:18 AM
Maybe your whiny intentions and otherwise childish attitude shines through when you drop off resumes. Maybe you're an idiot and act the part too often. Maybe you should suck it up and keep trying until you either get escorted off the property(bets are on for this one) or give up and depress the hell out of everyone you come in contact with. Your call.

jaydee
03-27-2008, 05:20 AM
whoa watcha doin up so late? /ubbthreads/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/crazy.gif

oneof3
03-27-2008, 05:21 AM
It's lunchtime somewhere.

jaydee
03-27-2008, 05:22 AM
<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: 1of3</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Maybe your whiny intentions and otherwise childish attitude shines through when you drop off resumes. Maybe you're an idiot and act the part too often. Maybe you should suck it up and keep trying until you either get escorted off the property(bets are on for this one) or give up and depress the hell out of everyone you come in contact with. Your call. </div></div>

i actually never thought of that but either way they deserve it. i shouldnt have to act fake like on here to get a job, my attitude is my attitude and shouldnt be judges against me if I WANNA WORK, that just tells me their picky and theres not that many jobs maybe /ubbthreads/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/frown.gif

dancingqueen
03-27-2008, 06:17 AM
<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Macs</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: dancingqueen</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Macs</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I don't agree with any of this ....if you can't be yourself then your faking </div></div>

Usually I admire what you say Macs, but this opinion you seem to have is like you think people cannot change or grow. People can change their opinions on a subject or their perspective and not be fake </div></div>

I think if you change your opinion because your trying to please others...thats just wrong and I would never do it ..no matter what people think of me </div></div>

I agree with you on that one, but if you agree with others because they helped you see something from a different perspective that you can see the logic in is that really so bad?

b&aMom
03-27-2008, 06:43 AM
moooochi, you don't have to change your opinion here, or to get a job, but change your attitude. You can believe all you want that "it's who you know" to get a job here, but if your attitude is "too bad, boys, I'm breaking in, lemme show ya' what I can do", then you have something great to offer an employer, instead of pessimism. Keep your opinion, have the new attitude, it'll get you much farther. Then, eventually, I think your opinion will change because of that.

As an example of "who you know" in the "big company that pays well", I have a family member who has worked at OLG since it moved here. Very high up. Have I ever been able to get in there? Nope, neither has anyone else in my family. But I can get myself jobs all over the place, and more often than not I get whatever job I apply and interview for. And I'm talking good jobs, not minimum wage.

Keep the attitude. It doesn't mean it changes your opinions.

FBI
03-27-2008, 08:09 AM
mooochi might i be so bold as to ask your age, Thanks

Huggy85
03-27-2008, 08:15 AM
<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: moooochi</div><div class="ubbcode-body">do i think the decent job situation in this city stinks?? YES
do i think nepotism is alive and well in this city? YES

just once, when i bring my resume into the steel plant just to say, can i get an offer for an interview and such like other ppl got, thats all im saying. i know that ppl got in there with grade 12 diploma, as long as they pass the physical testing, me i seem to fall in the category that has a harder time landing a job. </div></div>

A huge step backwards from the original post...............

KDawg
03-27-2008, 08:18 AM
<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: moooochi</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: 1of3</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Maybe your whiny intentions and otherwise childish attitude shines through when you drop off resumes. Maybe you're an idiot and act the part too often. Maybe you should suck it up and keep trying until you either get escorted off the property(bets are on for this one) or give up and depress the hell out of everyone you come in contact with. Your call. </div></div>

i actually never thought of that but either way they deserve it. i shouldnt have to act fake like on here to get a job, my attitude is my attitude and shouldnt be judges against me if I WANNA WORK, that just tells me their picky and theres not that many jobs maybe /ubbthreads/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/frown.gif </div></div>

And there it is. Forget the original post. /ubbthreads/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/lol.gif

MaO3
03-27-2008, 08:54 AM
I'll still take the apology at face value and the rest well, I guess we'll see.

millie
03-27-2008, 09:07 AM
You HAVE to remember one thing its their game they make the rules and if they want to hold your crumby attitude against you that is up to them. I know personally if I were hiring for any job everyone who came in with an attitude like that would find their application in the trash. Why would I want to hire somebody like that who would just cause me grief down the road? As they say you can't get a tiger to change it's stripes.

millie
03-27-2008, 10:06 AM
Found this in todays Sault Star, might be good for those with welding tickets as theres great money to be made.:
MILLWRIGHTS & CWB SMAW WELDERS For a 3 week shutdown in Sudbury, ON. Travel, Room & Board provided, plus competitive wages. Please submit your resume to chris@tramin.ca or fax to 807-597-5525. Please ensure you send a copy of your current welding tickets

MaO3
03-27-2008, 10:15 AM
Further to your post Millie:

Those looking for work, check out the following link.

http://www.tramin.ca/jobs/

millie
03-27-2008, 10:20 AM
The reason I posted the welding part is that a certain member kept claiming to have valid welding tickets so I thought that they'd jump at the offer. Meanwhile that was a great link you also posted.

MaO3
03-27-2008, 10:22 AM
I wondered who Tramin was since it wasn't a name I had heard, and my husband has worked in Sudbury over the years.

I googled them and got to thier website. I found the job bank link and thought that "others" might be interested in it.

SusyQ
03-27-2008, 10:27 AM
Why is it so hard for people too think moooochi changed? He's a kid we've all changed at one point of our lives for the better.

Kittie
03-27-2008, 10:29 AM
Good for you Mooch..
(=

millie
03-27-2008, 10:30 AM
if hes a kid then I'm the Green Giant.

SusyQ
03-27-2008, 10:34 AM
Do you know how old he is Millie no well neither do I but I'm pretty sure I've heard him mention early 20's at one point. Thats Soonet quick too judge but never too quick too say good for you for trying.

t1000
03-27-2008, 10:48 AM
the expession "fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me comes to mind!"

SusyQ
03-27-2008, 10:49 AM
That only pertains to SOME people.

t1000
03-27-2008, 10:53 AM
not to me it doesn't

SusyQ
03-27-2008, 10:58 AM
Well good for you but other people think differant.

t1000
03-27-2008, 11:04 AM
good for them they have their opinions and I have mine

millie
03-27-2008, 11:05 AM
yes I know

t1000
03-27-2008, 11:09 AM
good

SusyQ
03-27-2008, 11:12 AM
Exactly

t1000
03-27-2008, 11:15 AM
This isn't the last word thread /ubbthreads/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/lol.gif

SusyQ
03-27-2008, 11:16 AM
lol ok that was funny.

t1000
03-27-2008, 11:17 AM
thanks /ubbthreads/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/lol.gif

AmdWolfman
03-27-2008, 11:20 AM
I change every minute

SusyQ
03-27-2008, 11:21 AM
We know AMD especially after a couple of brews. /ubbthreads/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/grin.gif

MaO3
03-27-2008, 11:22 AM
Amd, did you check out the link to the website I posted. Might be of interest to you.

Sweet Little Sister
03-27-2008, 11:34 AM
didn't read this whole thread, just skimmed thru it..
but this is what i think: the mooch has to get a handle on his depression before he will ever be seen as employable..nobody wants to hire a sad sac.
until he is in a healthy mental state he's not going to have the self confidence, the tools or the ability to attain and hold a job.
he has a lot of hard work ahead of him if he wants to beat this thing and be a productive member of society. his first step should be logging off of soonet and away from the ppl who [censored] on him everytime he opens his mouth.
best of luck to you Mooch. depression is a horrible thing to live with..i wish you the best..nobody can help you unless you want to help yourself.


the Dr is closed for the rest of the day. /ubbthreads/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/wink.gif

starterwiz
03-27-2008, 02:02 PM
Step in the right direction. Good on ya Mooch.

AmdWolfman
03-27-2008, 02:50 PM
could someone tell me why is aplolgies to everyone?

jaydee
03-27-2008, 05:58 PM
<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: b&aMom</div><div class="ubbcode-body">moooochi, you don't have to change your opinion here, or to get a job, but change your attitude. You can believe all you want that "it's who you know" to get a job here, but if your attitude is "too bad, boys, I'm breaking in, lemme show ya' what I can do", then you have something great to offer an employer, instead of pessimism. Keep your opinion, have the new attitude, it'll get you much farther. Then, eventually, I think your opinion will change because of that.

As an example of "who you know" in the "big company that pays well", I have a family member who has worked at OLG since it moved here. Very high up. Have I ever been able to get in there? Nope, neither has anyone else in my family. But I can get myself jobs all over the place, and more often than not I get whatever job I apply and interview for. And I'm talking good jobs, not minimum wage.

Keep the attitude. It doesn't mean it changes your opinions. </div></div>

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jaydee
03-27-2008, 05:59 PM
<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: §weet £ittle §ister</div><div class="ubbcode-body">nobody wants to hire a sad sac</div></div>


awwwww why not..?

jaydee
03-27-2008, 06:02 PM
<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: starterwiz</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Step in the right direction. Good on ya Mooch. </div></div>

sorry for all that bs man /ubbthreads/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/smile.gif

Barry Morris
03-27-2008, 07:33 PM
<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Macs</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Barry Morris</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Macs</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I don't agree with any of this ....if you can't be yourself then your faking </div></div>

You must be faking. If not, somebody would have shot you by now!!! </div></div>

dont you have something to install /ubbthreads/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/lol.gif </div></div>

Nah, I finished with all the RCC installs today!!! /ubbthreads/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/smile.gif /ubbthreads/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/smile.gif

jaydee
03-27-2008, 09:42 PM
<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Macs</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I don't agree with any of this ....if you can't be yourself then your faking </div></div>

do you think being nice is actually fake? i mean when youre nice to someone to stoop to their level and change how you are, whether you are angry at something or what, dont you think thats a bit two faced too? i think being and acting nice in general is all a put on, you are yourself whether thats good or bad, maybe even a bit but not when you act too good to impress.

metal_gods
03-27-2008, 10:15 PM
A cry for help ... on a BBS ... pretty sad

jaydee
03-27-2008, 10:25 PM
<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: metal_gods</div><div class="ubbcode-body">A cry for help ... on a BBS ... pretty sad </div></div>

whos crying for help??? im just making a statement

metal_gods
03-27-2008, 10:34 PM
http://familypoet.com/graphics/Cry-Baby.gif

Sweet Little Sister
03-27-2008, 10:36 PM
/ubbthreads/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/lol.gif that'll teach you for stealing pics off the internet.

jaydee
03-27-2008, 10:36 PM
<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: §weet £ittle §ister</div><div class="ubbcode-body">/ubbthreads/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/lol.gif that'll teach you for stealing pics off the internet. </div></div>

question is whats dat a pic of..? familypoet... hmmmmm
anyways i know its a cry baby and im not cryijng or whining lol so thats not the case metal gods

jaydee
03-27-2008, 10:38 PM
<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: §weet £ittle §ister</div><div class="ubbcode-body">/ubbthreads/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/lol.gif that'll teach you for stealing pics off the internet. </div></div>

whos crying for help anyways sister???

Andre
03-27-2008, 10:39 PM
<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: §weet £ittle §ister</div><div class="ubbcode-body">/ubbthreads/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/lol.gif that'll teach you for stealing pics off the internet. </div></div>

and those people were nice about it.
I've seen some pretty nasty pics show up instead

Miles From Nowhere
03-27-2008, 11:41 PM
Hotlinking images is always a crap shoot.

jaydee
03-27-2008, 11:46 PM
i know youre scapegoat iss posting a pic of a cry baby but sorry wont work this time

jaydee
04-16-2008, 09:35 PM
<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Millie</div><div class="ubbcode-body">You HAVE to remember one thing its their game they make the rules and if they want to hold your crumby attitude against you that is up to them. </div></div>

thats true. but i thank everyone for their offers and suggestions! its just too bad you need to rely on other people to find jobs /ubbthreads/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/frown.gif

jaydee
04-16-2008, 09:43 PM
<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Metal_Gods</div><div class="ubbcode-body">http://familypoet.com/graphics/Cry-Baby.gif </div></div>

youre attempt to post an image failed

millie
04-16-2008, 09:47 PM
<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: woeisme</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Millie</div><div class="ubbcode-body">You HAVE to remember one thing its their game they make the rules and if they want to hold your crumby attitude against you that is up to them. </div></div>

thats true. but i thank everyone for their offers and suggestions! its just too bad you need to rely on other people to find jobs /ubbthreads/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/frown.gif </div></div>

Actually at the plant now getting hired because of who you know is MUCH rarer than it used to be back in the 70's and 80's.

millie
04-16-2008, 09:50 PM
If they didn't hire you this time take a minute to think of what the reasons might have been and do something positive about it so the next time you'll be more desirable for them.

Barry Morris
04-16-2008, 09:58 PM
Or even ask the interview guy WHY you didn't get hired and what you can do about it.

jaydee
04-16-2008, 09:59 PM
<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Millie</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: woeisme</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Millie</div><div class="ubbcode-body">You HAVE to remember one thing its their game they make the rules and if they want to hold your crumby attitude against you that is up to them. </div></div>

thats true. but i thank everyone for their offers and suggestions! its just too bad you need to rely on other people to find jobs /ubbthreads/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/frown.gif </div></div>

Actually at the plant now getting hired because of who you know is MUCH rarer than it used to be back in the 70's and 80's. </div></div>

yeah thats true, ever since they restructured they lost jobs and make 1 person do more, they also may have changed their standards

millie
04-17-2008, 06:07 AM
it's so easy to sit back and not face reality and try to blame somebody else for our own situation, which is something we all have done at one time or another.

adigirl
04-17-2008, 08:11 AM
True

jaydee
04-17-2008, 09:41 AM
<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Millie</div><div class="ubbcode-body">it's so easy to sit back and not face reality and try to blame somebody else for our own situation, which is something we all have done at one time or another. </div></div>

yeah youre right, youre a changed man eh?!?