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Macs II
11-06-2008, 10:31 PM
How do you get along with your in-laws? or if your not married .....with your partners parent/ s ?

Chaotic Chick
11-06-2008, 10:33 PM
I have spoken to my mother-in-law twice. She hates me. She told people she hated me before she even met me. LOL

Macs II
11-06-2008, 10:34 PM
I have spoken to my mother-in-law twice. She hates me. She told people she hated me before she even met me. LOL


LOL ...you can't be serious

Chaotic Chick
11-06-2008, 10:37 PM
I am very serious. She told her daughters, her son and my best friend she hated me. When they found out she had never met me they said she was confused. I have another word for her. ;)

Macs II
11-06-2008, 10:41 PM
hate is a very strong word ......to hate someone you have never even met is beyond me

Chaotic Chick
11-06-2008, 10:49 PM
Hatred causes more stress than people think... she can have the stress and be hateful, as long as she stays away from me! lol My husband gets along well with my parents though. My dad has always said no one was good enough for me, but now he says my husband is as close to good enough as I will get. :P

Macs II
11-06-2008, 10:53 PM
you must've been daddy's little girl

bouffant
11-06-2008, 10:54 PM
hate is a very strong word ......to hate someone you have never even met is beyond me


OMG you should live by your own words, you hate everything that anyone posts.

bouffant
11-06-2008, 10:57 PM
As for in-laws, if they are the square silent cake eating type, my family will chew'em up and spit'em out. We are all loud and very hostile, but we love each other. I've gotten into fist fights with my brothers and cousins, and won.

Macs II
11-06-2008, 11:00 PM
As for in-laws, if they are the square silent cake eating type, my family will chew'em up and spit'em out. We are all loud and very hostile, but we love each other. I've gotten into fist fights with my brothers and cousins, and won.

real red necks huh lol

ProfessorZed
11-06-2008, 11:28 PM
I have a pretty solid relationship with my MIL. This is probably because she's in California and we only talk occasionally. :D

Hubby and my dad are really tight. My mother thinks that as long as he makes me happy and treats me well, he's just fine in her book.

moochie
11-07-2008, 02:51 AM
How do you get along with your in-laws? or if your not married .....with your partners parent/ s ?

no worries for me!

intuit
11-07-2008, 07:00 AM
good question, I get along great with my mother-in-law. She is Italian and I do all the cooking in our family, she loves me, lol. Close net family. Now the sister-in-law (married to my wifes brother) thats a different story.

Punkin
11-07-2008, 07:25 AM
My in-laws are awesome people!!!! We get along great.. talk 2 or 3 times a week and see each other at least once a week. :) My hubby gets along great with my parents as well :) Same as above about calling & seeing :)

GRUMPY
11-07-2008, 08:45 AM
I get along great with mine but I honestly feel sorry for the lady next door to me ,while her husband's parents aren't bad (actually the father is great) the rest at best could be best described as white trash.

lynys
11-07-2008, 08:53 AM
Well, my inlaws are absolutely the greatest people I know. I often tell my MIL that it is okay to like me more then Keebler, and we laugh about it. :)

They are the next best thing to my parents in my book!

Guest
11-07-2008, 09:45 AM
When my mil started introducing me as her future son in law instead of her daughter's bf, I knew I was in.

And my parents just love my other half.

So do all my friends, for that matter. They say they.ve never seen me so happy.

Misschix
11-07-2008, 09:48 AM
Dont even get me started I know my MIL loves and care for me very deeply..Im kinda like her daughter the way she treats me...and she treats my children like princess' and a prince....Now my parents with hubby...ugh

lynys
11-07-2008, 10:04 AM
When my mil started introducing me as her future son in law instead of her daughter's bf, I knew I was in.

And my parents just love my other half.

So do all my friends, for that matter. They say they.ve never seen me so happy.

My mom introduces Keebler to everyone as my husband and her son in law instead of my boyfriend. LOL!

goodasgold
11-07-2008, 10:16 AM
I get along great with my in-laws. Especially when they offer to take all three kids for the night or weekend. My kids have good relationships with both sets of grandparents as well. We are all one big happy family. lol

cuteandcuddly
11-07-2008, 10:36 AM
well my inlaws absolutely hate me. Met hubby online and he left Florida to move here so they are very bitter..oh well.

ProfessorZed
11-07-2008, 11:54 AM
well my inlaws absolutely hate me. Met hubby online and he left Florida to move here so they are very bitter..oh well.

Aww! Actually, I think that might be why my MIL loves me so much! (Just kidding, husband! Really!)

A*lil*Loopy
11-07-2008, 01:06 PM
I get along great with my inlaws. It's been a rather long road and I'm sure they didn't always feel so positively about me but after getting to know me and understand me a bit, they adapted. It's been 23 years and I really enjoy spending time with them.

We're actually looking forward to living around the corner from them this year coming, since I'll hopefully have a garden.........................and the father-in-law likes to stay busy. I'll be hoping for a weedless garden. ;)

I just wish my family had always been nice to my husband. My Mom used to think he beat me which is the farthest thing from the truth. Eventually she came around and loves him to death now.

Sweet Little Sister
11-07-2008, 01:50 PM
i lost my mil two years ago. it still makes me cry..i loved her with all my heart.
she was more like a Grama to me than a mil.

Sophie's_Mommy
11-07-2008, 02:54 PM
my parents absolutely love my hubby, my moms does more for him then she does for me..lol..my dad says he s the son he never had ( dad has 3 girls..lol.) they get along great, and it makes me so happy. It really shows what family is about and how a family should act towards one another. Nothing but love and care. never would they even think about hurting the ones they love. Im very blessed with a loving family.

Sophie's_Mommy
11-07-2008, 02:56 PM
since my hubby never comes on here, next week is his birthday and my mom knows how much he loves timmys coffee, so she went and got hima 100 timmys card,lol,,,she also got him some clothes, but the card was funny, he does not know yet, i told her 100 is a bit much for a timmys card but she said he ll have that gone in a month..lol..which is prolly true. when we were shopping last week with my mom my hubby showed us a a shirt he really wanted but was 95 bucks, so my mom says to us, heres the key to the car i ll be out in a few minutes, later at home she showed me the shirt he loved so much, she went and bought it for him. She is awesome i love my mommy.

hp2
11-07-2008, 04:22 PM
its been a long hard 13 yrs for me.. My MIL is Much like my own mother now.. IT Took me along time to get close to her.. BUT I speek to her and My own mother every day.. sometimes more then once a day... IF I have a ? and I cannot get my mom I do not hesitate anymore to call my MIL.... There are many days I Need both my moms to help out and IM sure glade both can help me now.. IT took alot of arguing.. dissagreeing.. and many many times not seeing eye to eye.. but we have come along way in 13 yrs.. we are building a house and my In laws have been helping.. and THAT has brought distance.. but yet when we get through it we are that much closer.. BEFORE we used to get hostile about things.. NOW I see it as they JUST WANT THE BEST FOR US AND THERE GRANDKIDs.. and I respect them for that now... I have grown up but so have they..


as for my husband.. and my family... NEVER been a problem.. if me and my mom bicker hubby stays outa it... but HE and my Mom are close and would drop anything to help them out.. same as I would do now for his parents....


IM VERY LUCKY TO HAVE INLAWS.. and I respect them more then ever... and My FIL.. well WE GET ALONG PRETTY great... IF I have a problem I have learned to speek my mind...

moochie
11-07-2008, 04:54 PM
like i said , no worries for me, got no in-laws