Searching for Biological Mother for my fiance...

[Sassybitch73]

To start off this is Havilladgals Fiance and I was wondering if anyone out there would be able to help me out to try and locate my Birth mother, I have some non-identifying information on both my Birth mother and birth father,I am going to place that info on this thread, so if anyone knows or regognizes this info please get in touch with me, for I would love to know and meet my birth mother...
http://i183.photobucket.com/albums/x177/XANDER_CAGE_2007/ADOPTION.jpg

http://i183.photobucket.com/albums/x177/XANDER_CAGE_2007/ADOPTION2.jpg

http://i183.photobucket.com/albums/x177/XANDER_CAGE_2007/ADOPTION3.jpg


Here are the links to the nonidentifying info did not know how to put it on this site, so please anyone with possible info please get back in touch with me through a pm on here, thanks for your time to read this thread...

[Sassybitch73]

oops never mind they did show up on here lol but here they are /ubbthreads/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/smile.gif

[sage]

That is fascinating! I hope you find something!! Do know of which Native ancestry your mothers family was from? Its a start...any names at all??

[sage]

Just wanted to add, I was adopted in Nov. 1972 also, but from Alberta and placed here in the Soo.
Ever COOL! I found my birth parents though, was bittersweet for me. If you have any names, places ...that helps. I can ask around for you - adoption always fascinates me- the process & reunions.

[MaO3]

Wow, I truly hope that you find your birth family.
Please keep us posted on your progress.
Ma

[NewCasa]

Just to note that legislation in Ontario has passed and will be effective in September to make it much easier to locate birth parents. I read through this but it was some time ago. If you'd like more information, I suggest you visit the Ministry of Children and Youth Services website. I believe the address is http://www.mcys.on.ca.

Good luck with your search!

[EyelashExtensions]

There are sites online that can help you, I would try google and search in Canada. Although, there are some american sites that also offer this to canadians.

http://www.canadianadopteesregistry.org/

http://www.canadiancrc.com/Adoption/Finding_your_birth_parents.htm

http://www.generations.on.ca/adoption.htm


This may help and there are other sites out there.

[kim gagnon]

wow, freaked me out. i have a 1/2 brother out there somewhere. the story sound similiar. and the birth date, but i called my mom and she doesnt think your him. we do want to find him though.my dad was part lebanese not indian. /ubbthreads/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/frown.gif

[Sassybitch73]

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Sage</div><div class="ubbcode-body">That is fascinating! I hope you find something!! Do know of which Native ancestry your mothers family was from? Its a start...any names at all?? </div></div>I know that my mother is ojibway and I have no idea of any names or anything just what i have placed in the thread.

[Verotik]

i find this really interesting i wish you best of luck in your search. from the info it sounds like your birth father may not even known about you?

[Sassybitch73]

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: harley girl</div><div class="ubbcode-body">wow, freaked me out. i have a 1/2 brother out there somewhere. the story sound similiar. and the birth date, but i called my mom and she doesnt think your him. we do want to find him though.my dad was part lebanese not indian. /ubbthreads/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/frown.gif </div></div>wow is right lol but you never know eh, that is freaky holy cow:)

[Sassybitch73]

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: verotik667</div><div class="ubbcode-body">i find this really interesting i wish you best of luck in your search. from the info it sounds like your birth father may not even known about you?
</div></div>that is so very true he might not even know about me at all, I will need luck on my side for this 100% /ubbthreads/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/smile.gif and really hope i find something out.

[Sassybitch73]

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: NoCasa</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Just to note that legislation in Ontario has passed and will be effective in September to make it much easier to locate birth parents. I read through this but it was some time ago. If you'd like more information, I suggest you visit the Ministry of Children and Youth Services website. I believe the address is http://www.mcys.on.ca.

Good luck with your search! </div></div>I will check out that site thank you very much

[Sassybitch73]

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: MaO3</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Wow, I truly hope that you find your birth family.
Please keep us posted on your progress.
Ma </div></div>
thanks very much ma I really hope i can find something...And i will keep everyone posted on my progress. /ubbthreads/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/smile.gif

[kim gagnon]

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Havillandgal</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: harley girl</div><div class="ubbcode-body">wow, freaked me out. i have a 1/2 brother out there somewhere. the story sound similiar. and the birth date, but i called my mom and she doesnt think your him. we do want to find him though.my dad was part lebanese not indian. /ubbthreads/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/frown.gif </div></div>wow is right lol but you never know eh, that is freaky holy cow:) </div></div>
that would be cool.

[EyelashExtensions]

I wanted to note that some of the sites will do a cross reference with the information you have. Date of birth, sex etc... Also if your mother or any of her family members are looking for you they may have posted/registered with some of the sites.

[Sassybitch73]

thank you for the information lizzard, i hope it helps me out a great deal /ubbthreads/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/smile.gif

[Sassybitch73]

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: harley girl</div><div class="ubbcode-body">wow, freaked me out. i have a 1/2 brother out there somewhere. the story sound similiar. and the birth date, but i called my mom and she doesnt think your him. we do want to find him though.my dad was part lebanese not indian. /ubbthreads/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/frown.gif </div></div>

My biological father is french (from Quebec) and biological mother is Native. I hope you find your 1/2 brother too.

[DogsRule]

Good luck for you /ubbthreads/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/smile.gif

[Tutones]

Good news! I checked the Canadian Adoptees Site for you and there is a listing for a Charles born In SSM on your birthdate. Make the call! Good luck!

http://www.canadianadopteesregistry.org/adoptee_1972_05.html

oops, sorry I think that is your registration to look for your mother :(.
Good Luck to you. I found an adopted relative through this site a few years ago.

[Sassybitch73]

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Tutones</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Good news! I checked the Canadian Adoptees Site for you and there is a listing for a Charles born In SSM on your birthdate. Make the call! Good luck!

http://www.canadianadopteesregistry.org/adoptee_1972_05.html

oops, sorry I think that is your registration to look for your mother :(.
Good Luck to you. I found an adopted relative through this site a few years ago. </div></div>

That's me looking for my biological mother Tutones. /ubbthreads/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/wink.gif Thanks so much for helping though...you had me excited!

[EyelashExtensions]

I would also suggest taking an ad out in the paper and sootoday if you haven't already done so.

[Karen-Annie]

Fascinating reading this thread.And it surprises me how different adoption laws can be in the same country.When we adopted my daughter in Saskatchewan in 1975,one the day we picked her up,one of the papers we had to sign was the application for a new birth certificate and her full birth name including surname was on it.

[Auntymow]

Yes this is a very fasinating subject. My mother is almost the same age as the eldest sister and she was in fact in the hospital at the same time as your biological mother was when she had you, she was having me...I am 3 days older then you. She is totally astonished by this and she is trying for the life of her to recall anything that she can about your mother or anything that is in the paperwork that you have posted. I am sure if something comes up I will be writing you back ASAP. Good Luck in your search, and I hope my mother is able to remember something about that time.

[ZakkFeral]

I did the exact same thing as you, by putting an ad in the local paper. I used my birth first and middle names but only the first initial of my last name. I was successful.
Good luck and be sure this is what you really want to do beforehand. There is a real possibility that there may be some disappointment.
Funny, I was born and adopted around the same time -1973.
regards

[Sassybitch73]

Endofsanity, that would be so awesome if your mother could remember something about my biological mother I would more than certainly appreciate every bit of it.

[sage]

The 70's babies must of been wild LOL!

Lots of 70's adoptions on here.

[Sassybitch73]

Still no different developments in my search yet but will keep everyone posted on whatever happens /ubbthreads/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/smile.gif

[Sophie's_Mommy]

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Sage</div><div class="ubbcode-body">The 70's babies must of been wild LOL!

Lots of 70's adoptions on here. </div></div>

in the 60's and 70's if a women was pregnant and not married they were almost forced to give the baby up, i remember my ex 's mother telling me she was pregnant in the 60's they put her in a home for the length of her pregnancy and made her give the baby up, she cries to this day about him and wishes she knew where where he was.she wanted to keep him but at the time the people wouldent let her, i think it was her church or something dont really remember. they wouldn't even let her hold him or nothing took him out of the room immediately she could hear his cries but could never even see what he looked like or hold him, that has to be so traumatizing and hard on a women to go threw that
good luck on ur search, i hope things work out for you and u find your biological mother.

[Sassybitch73]

Thanks Shawn's Girl. That story sounds like what my fiance's mother went through when she had her first son out of wedlock. The church came along back in the 50's and took my fiance's brother from the hospital and placed him into a foster home. My fiance's mother and grandmother had to fight for him back, and after a year of fighting, finally got him back into her care. It was very traumatizing on my fiance's mother, and I could not imagine that happening to any mother out there. It would certainly be very hard to deal with. I hope I find my biological mother as well...it certainly would be nice to know that side of my family.

[Sophie's_Mommy]

yes it would be nice to know where u came from, any health problems ect...its very sad they did things that way back in the day, i could not imagine being pregnant for 9 months feeling the baby kick hearing the heartbeat and then not even being able to hold him/hr or see him/her, very very sad, good luck on ur search once again,im sure in time u will find her /ubbthreads/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/smile.gif

[Jackie B]

I imagine there would have been more adoptions before Roe vs. Wade, which was Jan 1973...

[ProfessorZed]

Except, Jackie, that was in the US, not Canada. It would make absolutely zero difference here.

I don't think any of us needs this conversation to shift in that direction, least of all the OP.

[Sassybitch73]

Still no luck on the search.

[Shanny]

That's too bad

[Sassybitch73]

I really hope my fiance gets some other type of information on his biological mother or that side of the family at least.

[Verotik]

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Jackie B</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I imagine there would have been more adoptions before Roe vs. Wade, which was Jan 1973... </div></div>

you have a great imagination, imagine a world where people can make their own decisions and not be judged by people like you

[Jackie B]

No, I honestly didn't mean it that way. Just someone commented on how there seemed to be a lot of adoptions in that time frame, so I looked up the year. I wasn't judging, or trying to start anything, just making an observation. I never thought of the Canada/US thing, no idea when it became legal here. I suppose I could look it up.

BTW, what's OP?

[ProfessorZed]

Original post/original poster (depending on context -- in this case, poster).