how do you know???

[Giggle Squirt]

HOw do you know when it is time to jump in head first into a situation weather it be for a job, personal growth, relationship??? How do you konw when to throw catuion into the wind? would you ever risk it all and pick up your life and move it to another city for a job?

[AngelOnHigh]

i picked it all up and moved for love... heck, i even moved out of the country... lol.

you only live once... SO LIVE IT TO THE FULLEST! take the chance! you really have NOTHING to lose... just a life to live!

[GoldDogs]

I say look at what you've got, look at what you want, look at what you need, and look at what you can get. Then take the leap in whichever direction is calling your name.

[jaydee]

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Man eater!!!!</div><div class="ubbcode-body">HOw do you know when it is time to jump in head first into a situation weather it be for a job, personal growth, relationship??? How do you konw when to throw catuion into the wind? would you ever risk it all and pick up your life and move it to another city for a job? </div></div>

me i dont know about the job situation really or the relationship either

[Giggle Squirt]

what about this situation, would you leave and move for a job that you will make more money at, but leave the love of your life? Even though you will be making more money, is it worth not being happy?

[$harky]

Money doesnt buy happiness.

HOLD ON

How much money are we talking about here ? LOL




Seriously though , No its not worth it. Been there done that and regret making that decision. Love and companionship are worth more then money IMO

[jaydee]

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Man eater!!!!</div><div class="ubbcode-body">what about this situation, would you leave and move for a job that you will make more money at, but leave the love of your life? Even though you will be making more money, is it worth not being happy? </div></div>

dont know really what do you value i could easily move out west for more jobs i might be qualified for... will i do it?? another story i way the pros and cons maybe at a last resort

[J*B]

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Man eater!!!!</div><div class="ubbcode-body">what about this situation, would you leave and move for a job that you will make more money at, but leave the love of your life? Even though you will be making more money, is it worth not being happy? </div></div>


If you truly love someone, how could you just up and leave them over money?

[IMHO]

Move for money...not love.

[Chaotic Chick]

You can always find someone else to love, but a good job is damned hard to find.

[Giggle Squirt]

personally i would stay and make less money and be happy with the person i love, then move and make more money and contatnly beat myself up for leaving. But i just wanted your opinion... But the job is a 20 dollar per hour wage increase. Also, alot of times, the men (husband/boyfriend) are the ones that leave town to persue another job to send money back to the family. How come if i am thinking of leaving to go and work at a job out of town, and come home on weekends, and i looked at as a bad mother. Is it still taboo for women to go and persue a job and leave the kids?

[tasma]

definitely, move for a good job not for a good love. good love can end abruptly if you have researched your job it can last for a career and a true love can still be found.

[J*B]

Well you never know the job might not work out either or you may not like the location or the people around you, anything is possible.
I guess if you're young though maybe you owe it to yourself to give it a whirl, but you have to be sure that you won't be beating yourself up over the decision.
If you're gonna do it, you just have to do it with no regrets!

[Macs II]

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: moooochi</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Man eater!!!!</div><div class="ubbcode-body">HOw do you know when it is time to jump in head first into a situation weather it be for a job, personal growth, relationship??? How do you konw when to throw catuion into the wind? would you ever risk it all and pick up your life and move it to another city for a job? </div></div>

me i dont know about the job situation really or the relationship either </div></div>

at least you're honest [img]/ubbthreads/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/lol.gif[/img]

[mr ed]

"HOw do you know when it is time to jump in head first into a situation weather it be for a job, personal growth, relationship??? How do you konw when to throw catuion into the wind? would you ever risk it all and pick up your life and move it to another city for a job?"



When you cant stop thinking about it.

Me I moved 27 times between the ages of 18 and 40 12 different cities, go ahead. Nothing to lose lots to gain.

[jaydee]

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Man eater!!!!</div><div class="ubbcode-body">personally i would stay and make less money and be happy with the person i love, then move and make more money and contatnly beat myself up for leaving. But i just wanted your opinion... But the job is a 20 dollar per hour wage increase. Also, alot of times, the men (husband/boyfriend) are the ones that leave town to persue another job to send money back to the family. How come if i am thinking of leaving to go and work at a job out of town, and come home on weekends, and i looked at as a bad mother. Is it still taboo for women to go and persue a job and leave the kids? </div></div>

no but guys are usually the ones that do that, if they find themeselves single still with no one in sight but this kinda town if you like someone theres nothing like home sweet home [img]/ubbthreads/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/smile.gif[/img]
as much as theres [censored] to do here

[jaydee]

tell you the truth i will never know when its the right time for me for a woman and what not.... im still childish like that [img]/ubbthreads/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/frown.gif[/img]