Should I or Shouldn't I?????

[SusyQ]

Ok the kids dad is in town and wants too get back together. We had a 15 year relationship which I broke off last month. He's beggin to get back but I'm reluctant. Any advice?

[t1000]

yep quit trying to get me banned! [img]/ubbthreads/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/crazy.gif[/img]

[SusyQ]

huh?

[H.E. Pennypacker]

use your gut instinct, not that of a message board.

[SusyQ]

The gut instinct is there BUT a little advice could be helpful.

[cutie22]

SusyQ I would suggest to consider what ended the relationship and how things were before you guys broke up. How long have you guys been apart would be another factor to fit into it. Other than that I have no clue what to suggest. Weigh out the pros and cons and everything.

[SusyQ]

They were terrible Cutie. There are more cons than pros though.

[kinkysquiggles]

Susy. . . . you were there. . . . we weren't . . . .
You obviously have thoughts and opinions on the whole thing. You guys broke up for a reason. Can you (him, depending on the circumstances) get past them???? Do whatever feels right for you. Not what everyone else thinks is right. Good luck!!!!

[SusyQ]

No I can't thanks Princess.

[PwRjinjin]

get back with him or not. you may or may not have had good times with him. Even though he may or may not have treated you bad recently or way back when , he may or may not have meant it. i think you should or should not take him back based on the reason you left him. Obviously i know what i am talking about .... i may or may not have been in the same situation you were in. so think you should or should not get back together with him. he may or may not love you. What ever you do, take his money.

[SusyQ]

omg he's got none [img]/ubbthreads/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/lol.gif[/img]

[PwRjinjin]

i say you should also see a psychic reader and have some tea, or consult your local magic 8 ball. they will probably help you as much as a message board.

[PwRjinjin]

Get back with him if he has no money. clearly he is not using you ... unemployed people are always good providers.

[SusyQ]

It's not the money or the kids. It's the fact that I saw him 3 maybe 4 times a year. We well you know almost a year ago. You'd think he'd jump on me first thing but nope!

[PwRjinjin]

here.. use this.. it will help you in life.
good night

http://web.ics.purdue.edu/~ssanty/cgi-bin/eightball.cgi

[SusyQ]

You are too funny. Thanks for Mr. 8 Ball. LOL!

[t1000]

I vote you go to sleep,you can't make a decision based on lack of sleep!

[SusyQ]

I forgot too say that it was a 15 year long distance relationship in which I was faithful. Like I said I saw him 3 maybe 4x's tops out of a year.

[SusyQ]

I'd love too sleep BUT too much on my mind and too know Susy is too know that when life throws her curve balls she doesn't catch them well.

[t1000]

then bring me a coffee!