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    One 22 month old sleeping in her crib and no vehicle. Sorry chum.

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    ARE YOU EVER GOING TO "GROWUP"

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    <div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SusyQ</div><div class="ubbcode-body">The gut instinct is there BUT a little advice could be helpful. </div></div>

    Simple answer is .....NO ...don't make the same mistake twice, it will not work and you will just get hurt again.

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    <div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: KWB</div><div class="ubbcode-body">ARE YOU EVER GOING TO "GROWUP" </div></div>


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    <div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Art Vandelay</div><div class="ubbcode-body">use your gut instinct, not that of a message board. </div></div>

    This is the first time that Art has posted anything thats even semi-intelligent listen to him.

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    Well I'm going to the campsite for supper so I think I'll take Macs advice. Thanks Macs. Your right. My oldest is out there now and I'm taking the baby so she can run and play.


    KWB I toggled you and would you go get laid I'm sure it'll make you feel better for at least 10 mins.

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    or at least a pound of fresh liver.

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    LOL@grump!

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    well susyq u left him for a reason, and i know after yrs with someone and then having no one can be a little depressing. You must still love him thats why u r even considering taking him back, but do u think things will be different? I've seen relationships taking a second chance and being just as bad as it was the first time, and i ve seen them being 100 percent better then before. No one can really tell u yes or no thats your call, but be careful cause u dont want to ed up broken hearted again.

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    Well Shawns girl the love isn't there for him anymore. I keep thinking I should do it for the kids but the kids are doing fine. They only got too see him what 4 times a year anyways.

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    if theres no love then leave him be, kids can sense how parents feel towards each other, so my advice is just keep livin the way u r now, that is best, plus its not fair to have him back in yours and your kids lives to just leave again and be seen 4 times a yr.It can makes kids sad. Plus who knows maybe theres a hunk of a man just waiting for you..lol.

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    LOL I don't about the hunk part no one in mind but ya it's over for my sake. Thanks Shawn's Girl.



    See Art and grump some friendly advice may be all it takes to put things in perspective.

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    np susyq anytime. oh ya i have a few single good looking men friends [img]/ubbthreads/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/smile.gif[/img]

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    LOL I think it's me time for awhile. LOL but I will keep that in mind.

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    Glad to see you come to some conclusions. I was going to say that if you had to come on here and ask for advice,your gut was already telling you "No." But i can understand ,in a way,asking for others' thoughts....your mind can get in such turmoil when something is thrown at you out of the blue thathaving others look at it helps get your own thoughts and feeling in some sort of order.Having others force you to think clearly and in an orderly manner can stop all those conflicting thoughts from bouncing around your brain.

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    I'm done settling for what is just there I want too start thinking about me and my life for once. I think I was just so used to the pattern of the last 15 years that it just felt normal.

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    Your a very attractive woman Susy, you shouldn't have any problems finding a good man! Took me a while but I found one!

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    if you are still asking for advice i say no, don't go back with him .you wouldn't need to seek advice if you had the feelings neccessary to have a lasting fulfilling relationship and as you have a younger child you need to be careful in your choices. have him as your "good buddy", maybe, but you need to stay free so you are available when you do meet the right guy for you. JMO

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    I think it really depends on what you want out of a relationship, and whether you feel he is 'right' for what you're looking for in a relationship. Only you can decide that. [img]/ubbthreads/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/smile.gif[/img]

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    <div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SusyQ</div><div class="ubbcode-body">They were terrible Cutie. There are more cons than pros though. </div></div>

    dear, i think you just answered your own question. like to tak to you more on the matter at a later date.
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