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    Default yes i am asking for your opinion.

    Do you think dr.s of pregnant teens should be forced to tell the parents that there kid is pregnant?
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    No. They should not be allowed to tell the parents. It is more important the the mother gets adequate medical care than that the parents know. If the teen is living at home it will become obvious after a while anyway.

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    If they are forced to tell the parents, I think there would be a lot more of pregnant teens out there not getting the medical attention needed for their pregnancies. First priorities should be the health of the baby and the mother.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Fyre View Post
    If they are forced to tell the parents, I think there would be a lot more of pregnant teens out there not getting the medical attention needed for their pregnancies. First priorities should be the health of the baby and the mother.
    Exactly.

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    The majority of teens who get pregnant have parents that don't care anyway.
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    Quote Originally Posted by the docs cat View Post
    The majority of teens who get pregnant have parents that don't care anyway.
    Bull.

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    Not bull
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    Quote Originally Posted by the docs cat View Post
    Not bull
    Smells like bull.
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    Carona smells like a skunk. Not a skunk though. There's precedence now.
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    Corona- La cerveza más fina!
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    in response to the OP - no. The pregnant teen should have the right of the medical information to be kept confidential.

    However, just how good is the relationship between the teen and her parents if she is keeping this from them. I'm mean, if the relationship is somewhat normal the parents will eventually find out.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Koss View Post
    in response to the OP - no. The pregnant teen should have the right of the medical information to be kept confidential.

    However, just how good is the relationship between the teen and her parents if she is keeping this from them. I'm mean, if the relationship is somewhat normal the parents will eventually find out.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Koss View Post
    I'm mean, if the relationship is somewhat normal the parents will eventually find out.
    You're mean! Well, I guess admitting it is...
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    Quote Originally Posted by the docs cat View Post
    The majority of teens who get pregnant have parents that don't care anyway.
    Right you are!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Fyre View Post
    You're mean! Well, I guess admitting it is...
    lol - obviously an apostrophe and m too many. I don't think I'm mean though - I don't even hit my own children.

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    Default Re: yes i am asking for your opinion.

    As a former TEEN mom...(I moved out before the pregnancy occurred anyways) I especially see the importance of an individual's right to confidential care. I work as an RN, and as long as a child/teen has the capacity to understand medical options and consequences, they are capable of making their own choices. A patient has the right to feel they can approach their health care provider without judgement or breach of confidentiality....
    (mind you, there are circumstances where certain things MUST be reported.. ie abuse, self harm.. etc.. )
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    Quote Originally Posted by Fyre View Post
    If they are forced to tell the parents, I think there would be a lot more of pregnant teens out there not getting the medical attention needed for their pregnancies. First priorities should be the health of the baby and the mother.
    I agree.
    These kids on't need one more reason to not go to see a doctor.
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    Default Re: yes i am asking for your opinion.

    but is a 13 year old really responsible enough to maintain proper medical care while pregnant?
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    Quote Originally Posted by giggle squirt View Post
    but is a 13 year old really responsible enough to maintain proper medical care while pregnant?
    It is my belief that we need to get that 13 year old in to see a doctor first before we worry about the rest.

    to a 13 year old first getting pregnant "Doctors are allowed to tell parents" is the same as "The Doctor will tell your parents"
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    Default Re: yes i am asking for your opinion.

    well what if that scared 13 year old tries to hide it for as long as she can and the baby and mother go that long with out prenatal care? Wouldn't it be better if the doctor had the ability to let the parents or a guardian know that the child was pregnant so that they could get the treatment that they need? Make sure that they child is following proper nutrition and edcuate the child on risky behaviors while pregnant?
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