Cheating

[Macs II]

Why is it that women are always going after the other woman instead of their own bf/spouse......same goes for men ...always blaming the other man ..why ?

[everywoman]

Maybe it's easier to blame someone else, than thinking the worst of the person you were supposed to trust?

[Giggle Squirt]

i am short and at castration level. if my man ever cheats on me i have brand new scissors.

[SIMBA]

Why is it that women are always going after the other woman instead of their own bf/spouse......same goes for men ...always blaming the other man ..why ?

Good question. I've been wondering that for years!

[Macs II]

Maybe it's easier to blame someone else, than thinking the worst of the person you were supposed to trust?

but if he/she is the one doing the cheating why trust them ? they are the ones cheating

[Luv'inLife]

I have often asked this question...the cheater hands the "fling" a bunch of lines and how is that person supposed to know its a lie?

[everywoman]

but if he/she is the one doing the cheating why trust them ? they are the ones cheating

You DID trust them while in a relationship, I'm assuming. So it might be hard for the cheated on spouse to make that change of mind and heart. It's easier to blame the HO!!

[1337]

damn HO's!!!

[Giggle Squirt]

Guess my cover is blown lol.

[everywoman]

Don't be hatin' the HO's! They need love too!

[1337]

Family Guy had a really good message.

"Don't kill hookers, they are already dead inside".

[Luv'inLife]

just because someone dates a married person doesnt mean they know about the marriage and they should not be called a HO...my Ex cheated continually and does on his new wife, but I never thought of any of his "girlfriends" as HO's, the only HO is him A$$HO

[Mr belsito]

Don't be hatin' the HO's! They need love too!

Ha ha, ho's, scare me now, you dont know many partners and where they have been?

[lynys]

I know for a fact that husbands that cheat (well, mine anyway) lie through his damned teeth to both of us. Then, he lied to his family about our relationship. Meh... poor girl married him. I personally am glad to be rid of him.

My new husband is pretty incredible. Our family is awesome. And, he has given me something my ex never could have. Yep, my life is truly better.

[TNT]

Family Guy had a really good message.

"Don't kill hookers, they are already dead inside".

hahaha this made my morning!

[A*lil*Loopy]

Many women feel that they are part of a "sisterhood" and that the "HO" should've known better. For some reason many women have felt that the other woman was smarter than her own husband and should have been more responsible but just don't say it out loud. Men aren't stupid, in fact they just don't think it through when they cheat and believe that women don't either.

On the other hand, women do think, and quite thoroughly. We are quite strategic in fact. I was surprised last week to hear someone ask how many of us gals thought we could get away with murder if we planned it. We all had thought it through and had answers for each outcome.................strange, huh? The guys hadn't.

So women aren't stupid either, they just think they are outsmarting one another. That's where they slip up.

[gouligann]

Why is it that women are always going after the other woman instead of their own bf/spouse......same goes for men ...always blaming the other man ..why ?

Because they still love their spouse, see the "other woman/man" as a threat, and probably hate the one who their spouse is cheating with. It is natural to blame the one they hate, rather than the one they love.

[CANDY_74]

Ive been cheated on before, and I can say that I wasn't angry at just one of them...I was angry at BOTH my significant other and the woman he was with.

Why you might say? Because the woman knew that we were married!!


And cheaters (men or women) will lie to both their spouse AND the person theyre having an affair with. Most of the time the 'other person' has no clue about marriage,kids etc....so they can't really be blamed...You can't be mad at someone who doesn't know about you!

But the person who is doing the cheating can be blamed!!!!!

ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER!!!!

[Mr belsito]

I have read and know of some people who think if you view adult material too often, thats cheating, also if you have secret conversations with another person of interest and dont have sex, maybe talk about it or intimate stuff...

[Mr belsito]

I wish someone would cheat with me at this point,lol