Horrible

[Misschix]

So I need to vent
I went out for my batcholorette party (sp) on saturday
come home
find out the next day my cousin slept with my fiance of four years
We have three kids I cant believe he did this to me
he says he feels sorry but I will not be with him ever again
MY wedding was supposed to be for next month
I am so disgusted
Any advice?

[kitty&mimi]

omg.....
wtf???
my advice??? u dont wanna know....

[KelBear]

WOW... don't marry him!! That's my advice!!

[washawee]

[img]/ubbthreads/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/cry.gif[/img] Sorry to hear that chix. No one should ever have to go through something like this. He doesn't deserve you then. You're pretty, smart, funny, and if he wants to do what he did I say good riddance to him and go find yourself aguy that respects you.

[houlegan]

I am so sorry chixy - my advice - ditch the dog. You must be so hurt and angry. If he would do this to you he does not appreciate nor truly love you. Cancel the wedding and deal with your feelings. If it is meant to be, it will not be anytime soon.

Stay single, no b.s. come and go as you please.

[hp2]

WOW, sounds like you and your sister can sure be there for each other right now!!!!

SORRY to here about that!!!

[pylus]

Open relationship seems out of the question. Being that he cheated he is at fault, if you forgive and he does it again it is your fault. I'd marry him and get divorced as quick as possible, after all women already control over 60% of the money in N. America, whats a couple more bucks?

Make it the most expensive [censored] he ever got.

[pylus]

I don't know what you think about violence, but I'd also make it a really bad day for the cousin, likely not personally you get in trouble for stuff like that.

[Sweet Little Sister]

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: polaris</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> [img]/ubbthreads/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/cry.gif[/img] Sorry to hear that chix. No one should ever have to go through something like this. He doesn't deserve you then. You're pretty, smart, funny, and if he wants to do what he did I say good riddance to him and go find yourself aguy that respects you. </div></div>
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so sorry Chixy Girl [img]/ubbthreads/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/frown.gif[/img]

[houlegan]

Pylus - I would never have thought of that for a second - revenge...a dish best served cold. LOL

Ultimately she feels betrayed, humiliated, angry,and a list of other feelings that would take too long to type.

Its easy for us to tell her what she should do - it is up to her to decide what is good for her.

[Xzavia]

WoW....what an [censored]!

I feel for you, and I'm probably thinking along the same lines as Kitty right now...you don't wanna know kinda thing....

[italiandomino]

Chix ... lots of great guys out there, and your a very attractive girl, move on, you will be happier that way. Make sure he pays the support for your kids.

[pylus]

Maybe its a good thing and the cousin should be rewarded. After all, she (I would guess) did help you realize that this guy will cheat and it did happen before you signed all those papers and made those Vows in front of your god or judge.

In the end though houlegan is right on the money. "Its easy for us to tell her what she should do - it is up to her to decide what is good for her"

[Chako]

Hmmm...sort of reminds me of a Carrie Underwood song titled "Before He Cheats".

I am sorry to hear this. I cannot give you any advice, as I have never been in such a situation. I know that Houlegan has it right on the button though.

[blueeyedgirl]

Sorry to hear that Chix. I was there for your sister to talk to when she was going through the exact same thing. It is a process that will take you through a lot of emotions and you need to do what is right for you. Like your sister if you need an extra ear, pm me.

[Sweet Little Sister]

two great girls..two dumbass guys

[Chako]

There seems to be no shortage of dumbass guys in the Sault.

[Bufford]

arn't you lucky you found out before you said I do, and remember if he did it once he will do it again and again and AGAIN
Cut the leash on that dog!

[MaO3]

I have to agree Chixy he does not deserve you. He's a dog!

You of course will have to make the decision to either kick him to the curb or attempt to salvage your relationship.

I tend to believe that if he cheated on you, he will again.
I'm sorry that you're going through this because of some jerks decision to listen to his other head!